Happy 12th Birthday!

Happy 12th Birthday to our youngest daughter Natalia. You are so funny, caring, kind, thoughtful, and passionate. You are a great sister, daughter, softball player, singer. Thanks for loving Jesus and letting His light shine through you. We love you so much and are thankful for your new year of life. Happy Birthday!

Announcing Youth Winter Fest 2014!

Shelter Rock Church Students Register HERE.
If you want to bring a group from your church e-mail kevin@shelterrockchurch.com

Weekend of Concerts

Last weekend we had a lot of fun taking students from Shelter Rock Church to our annual youth rally called Impact sponsored by Long Island Youth For Christ headlined by Christian hip hop artist Andy Mineo. Our friends The Walking Tree also played. Former Harlem Globe Trotter Seth Franco spoke and challenged students about the choices they make and their ability to have an impact in this world. The next evening our family went to New Jersey and enjoyed the Newsboys concert featuring For King and Country and Rapture Ruckus. What a great night of music! It was nostalgic for me having my 15 & 12 year old daughters at a Newsboys concert more than 20 years after I was watching them as a teenager.

How to Ruin Your Life by 30

“I want to ruin my life by the time I turn 30.”

Most teenagers and 20-somethings would never say it that way. More often what they say is:

“I just want to have fun,”

or,

“I just want to be happy.”

They have bought into the old “If it feels good, do it” philosophy of western culture. Unfortunately, that translates into acting without any regard for consequences beyond immediate gratification.

In his book, How To Ruin Your Life By 30, author Steve Farrar lays out nine easy steps one can take to achieve a dysfunctional life by the end of 3 decades. If, however, one is interested in not having a life in shambles, Farrar offers some great advice. Addressing topics such as purpose, vocation, spirituality, sex, relationships, and education, he challenges readers to consider the power of their choices and to choose wisely.

This book is ideal for high school and college students (perhaps as a graduation gift), and could easily be used to facilitate conversations between parents and children or as a discussion guide for student small groups.

I received a copy of this book from the publisher for the purpose of this review.

An Evening with Gungor

Adriana and I are in Colorado for a few days helping to plan the Simply Youth Ministry Conference 2014. Tonight our team had a private concert with Gungor who will be at the conference. Their new album I Am Mountain just came out. After you register for the SYMConference, be sure to order their album. It’s amazing!

She Got a Ball & Mariano Rivera Bobble Head!

This evening Natalia and I had the privilege of going to the Yankees game with our friend Tommy for the chance to see the greatest closer in the history of baseball, Mariano Rivera, just one more time. It was Mariano Rivera Bobble Head Night, so we arrived early as only the first 18,000 fans would receive one. Unfortunately, the bobble heads did not arrive at the stadium in time for the game, and we had to stand outside the gate for over an hour before they were finally opened and we received a voucher rather than the actual bobble head.

We entered the stadium and went down to left field for batting practice, and Natalia was given a ball by one of the Tampa Bay Rays’ players! She was SOOO excited! What a thrill! During the pre-game ceremonies, Mariano Rivera was recognized, so we were able to see him. The Yankees ended up losing, and he did not come into the game, but it was a great night with Natalia and a chance to see him at the stadium just one more time.

In the third inning they announced that the bobble heads had arrived and we ran to get in line … and were promptly marched from the first level all the way to the fourth to join the line all the way back down to the first level for pickup. It was crazy, but we decided to just stay in line. It took about 35 minutes, but we got our bobble heads. My guess is that we were in the first 3,000 people or so. The line just got longer and longer, and actually wound all the way to the other side of the stadium. Some people waited over 2 hours and missed a significant part of the game, so we were glad that we bit the bullet and waited when we did. 

Every Day I Pray for My Teenager … Here’s a Great, Helpful Tool

Here’s a little book I use to pray for my daughters. It contains 136 prayers covering spiritual life, areas of struggle, relationships, education, and life skills. Each day has a prayer for a specific area with Scriptural references. I appreciate and recommend Every Day I Pray for My Teenager by Eastman Curtis if you have children of your own or work with teenagers.