999 just isn’t 1,000 … Just 1 Can Make a Big Difference

Last week I decided to tackle a 1,000 piece puzzle. Over the course of several days I chipped away at it – mostly late at night long after the wife and kids had gone to bed. Finally, late one night I could finally see the end in sight. I was tired, but I was NOT going to bed until it was done. If you’ve ever done a puzzle, you know the maddening, addictive feeling you get that overwhelms your tiredness. I got down to about 10 pieces left, and sure enough, one by one they fell into place. There was only one problem. Or, should I say, one piece missing. I got down on my hands and knees, scouring the floor, moving the couches, feeling under all the cushions. Nada. Frustrated, I finally had to conclude that it must have been swept up or that one of our dogs had eaten it, and I went to bed. However, the next day I found myself still clinging to the hope that I might just find it, because, when it comes to puzzles, 999 just isn’t the same as 1,000. One piece really DOES make a difference. Then, about 2 days later, as I was sitting watching a basketball game I noticed something. Perhaps it was just the angle I was sitting at, but something caught my eye. Could it be? Could it really be? And, sure enough, there it was. Right where I had looked a dozen times, there was that one piece. When I put it in it’s place, it made all the difference in the world.
I started thinking. When it comes to ministry, sometimes the picture we present is just somehow incomplete. When one person on our team doesn’t show up, it just doesn’t feel right; doesn’t look right. When one person isn’t doing their part, the picture doesn’t look the same. God created us to work together, giving each person special gifts and talents that are meant to fit with and compliment the others on the team (See 1 Corinthians 12, Romans 12, Ephesians 4). No two people are the same, just as no two puzzle pieces are the same. There are many that look an awful lot alike, but when you look closely, you discover that each and every piece has a specific place where it fits perfectly. If you try to force it into a place it doesn’t belong, it throws everything off. Each person has a special, unique place in the body of Christ, and it’s the job of leaders to be constantly looking for people who are disconnected and help them find their place of ministry (Ephesians 4:11-13). Oh, yeah, and sometimes we have to get down on our hands and knees to see them because they won’t be where we expected to find them.

The Great Escape … from the Sauna!

This just in from the category “You can’t make this stuff up”: 
On Wednesday night I went out and enjoyed a great 4-mile run. Afterward I decided to go sit in the sauna in our clubhouse locker room. With nothing but a bottle of water, I headed over. Drenched with sweat I emerged around 10pm only to discovered that I had been locked in by the night patrol. And there was no interior latch by which I could unlock the door.
Now, you must understand, I am a night owl. I often run at night. We live in a retirement community. Everyone goes into their homes for the night before 8pm. I knew it was useless, but I began pounding on the door. The only window in the place – a blurred out window in the bathroom – had no possibility of being opened, so I began to flick the lights rapidly and randomly, hoping someone might observe this strange sight and come to inquire, but who was I kidding; they were all out for the count by then. 
After 30 minutes of failed signal attempts, and not finding anything whatsoever in the way of useless tools, I finally decided that the sauna rocks (which were still quite warm, by the way) were the only thing I might be able to use. So, I pulled one full-sized one and one that was chipped in half, and began looking for how I might use them while they cooled a bit. I really didn’t want to break the window and have to pay for replacement. I finally decided that my only hope was to try and get the pins out of the door hinges. It took some ingenuity, but after about 10 minutes I got them all out. I called the security office to let them know of my harrowing escape and asked them to send the patrolman out to put the hinges back in. Fortunately, it was me who got stuck in there and not one of the elderly folks in our community. Another funny story that will no doubtedly be a great illustration in some talk at some point.
Here they are. The tools of my illustrious escape.

Summer Spectacular 2012!

This week has been our church’s Summer Spectacular (VBS). We’ve had over 1,000 children, and it’s been an awesome week! Ady and I have been working with 5th-about-to-be-6th graders (including our own daughter, Natalia) and it’s a wonderful transitional event for us to connect with the kids coming into middle school ministry this summer. Claudia has been a Jr. leader with 1st grade. It’s been a fun time serving Jesus together as a family.

Rob Biagi leading music.
“I’m not a kid person.” Pshhh! Yeah right! Ady totally loved it! 

Ady with her group of 5th grade girls!
Crazy Hair Day! Yep, I was all in! 

The Greatest Kids Event in the Coachella Valley is NEXT WEEK!

Next week is Summer Spectacular when over 1,000 kids will be at our church for an awesome week of fun, friendship-building, and creative learning. If you haven’t signed your kids up yet, what are you waiting for? Also, if you are an adult who’s been attending Southwest for at least 6 months, we really need more volunteers. Sign both you and your child up at www.southwestkids.org.

8 Simple Guidelines for Helping The Homeless

When you see someone holding up a sign, “Will Work for Food,” Do you roll down your window and give them money? Do you pretend you didn’t see them? Nobody likes being confronted by the homeless – their needs often seem too overwhelming – but we all want to treat them fairly and justly.

Here are 8 simple guidelines from the Coachella Valley Rescue Mission to equip you to truly help the homeless people you meet:

  1. Never give cash to a homeless person. Too often, well intended gifts are converted to drugs or alcohol – even when the “hard luck” stories are true. If the person is hungry, buy them a sandwich and a beverage.
  2. Talk to the person with respect. Taking time to talk to a homeless person in a friendly, respectful manner can give them a wonderful sense of civility and dignity; it gives the person a weapon to fight the isolation, depression and paranoia that many homeless people face.
  3. Recognize that the homeless people (and their problems) are not all the same. The homeless are as diverse as the colors of the rainbow. The person you meet may be a battered woman, an addicted veteran, someone who is lacking job skills…the list goes on.
  4. Share God’s love whenever you can. If God were walking the earth today, He would certainly spend time with the homeless. Today, God chooses to work through those who believe and follow Him.
  5. Pray for the homeless. Exposure to the elements, dirt, occasional violence, and lack of purpose all drain years from a person’s life. God can use your prayers to bring many of the broken to Himself.
  6. Take precautions for your own safety. Always be prudent while talking with street people. Stay in areas where other people can see you. Don’t take unnecessary chances.
  7. Encourage the homeless to get help through your local mission. Rescue missions offer immediate food and shelter to the homelessness through their emergency shelters. Many offer long-term rehabilitation programs that deal with the root causes of homelessness.
  8. Support your local Mission. Most missions receive little or no government funding; we are supported by caring individuals, churches, businesses, and civic groups who see the value of sharing their resources with the less fortunate.

Care Packages
Another simple, practical way to help the homeless is to make and carry some care packages with you in your car that you can give to people when you meet them. Your local Dollar Store is a great place to maximize your money to create packages. Here are some things to include:

  • Water bottle 
  • Snacks (be sure they won’t melt if it’s hot in your location.)
  • Wet Wipes
  • Toothbrush/toothpaste
  • Kleenex
  • Deodorant
  • Soap
  • Chapstick
  • Sunscreen
  • A contact card for a local mission that can help them
  • Bible verse or even a small Bible
  • Gloves or handwarmers
  • Socks

10 Year Old and Classmates Raise $250 for Needy

A few weeks ago my youngest daughter and some of her classmates undertook a project to explore the topic of hunger. In addition to putting together a presentation, they also came up with way to be part of the solution. They held a bake sale outside of a local grocery store and raised $250 for the Coachella Valley Rescue Mission. This week they went to the Mission, interviewed one of the directors, and presented their check. They also gave their presentation to their classmates and parents. Very proud of our little girl!