Today I finished a year long journey through a great little devotional book called Fragments by Youth For Christ/USA President Dan Wolgemuth. The word that comes to mind when I think of his writing is compact. He was able to pack so much into each devotional punch that kept me thinking all day long. I highly recommend this book. You can also enjoy his writings digitally on his blog called Friday Fragments.
It’s Mother’s Day, and like most people I am reflecting on my own Mom. I am grateful for the wonderful mother that she was to me growing up which she continues to be to this day. I am also thinking about the incredible wife God has blessed me and the legacy of being a great mom she is continuing with our two daughters. Here are 3 things my wife does really well as a mom:
Makes sure she’s present. Like many moms, my wife is a working mother. Nevertheless, she never lets work get in the way of her primary calling as mother. She does whatever she has to do in order to be there for her daughters’ special events, games, and activities, no matter how small they might seem. Sometimes it’s a sacrifice, but she knows she has a very small window of time to enjoy this season of life with her girls before it’s gone. Our daughters know that they can always look over and see mom in the stands.
Ongoing conversations. One of my favorite things as a husband and father is observing the great relationship my wife has with our daughters. The hallmark of their relationship is consistent, ongoing conversation. She always knows what they’re going through, and there isn’t a topic that the girls can’t come and talk to her about. No topic is too small, too big, too embarrassing, or too far out of bounds for them to talk about. The lines of communication are open and the dialogue is honest.
Makes sure she points to Jesus. Finally, the ultimate thing I appreciate about my wife as a mother is that she is God-centered and constantly points our daughters to Jesus. In every situation she tries to ask our daughters questions that will cause them to dig deeper and ask more spiritually significant questions. Why is God allowing you to go through this situation? How does God want you to grow? Who does God want you to reach? What is God doing and how does He want you to be involved? etc.
Happy Mother’s Day Adriana! Thanks for being the mother of our children! I love you!
This Friday we’ll be having a Mom-Kids Fun Night for middle school students and their moms. We’ll also be having a Dad-Kids Fun Night on Friday, June 1st. We love providing opportunities for families to connect and have fun together! As youth ministries we only have kids for a few years, but they have their families forever, so we believe anything we can do to partner with families and nurture those relationships will have more significant, long-term impact.
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I love this! Tremendous challenge! Related post: Surrendered and Untamed.
Have you ever been in a church service where the challenge was given to “leave your baggage at the door”? The idea is that whatever you’ve been going through, whatever’s weighing you down, leave it outside, because we’re not here to worry about our problems, but to focus on Jesus. I’ve used the metaphor before myself.
I’ve been chewing on this concept lately. I’m wondering if, however, it’s not really a challenge to help people to focus on Jesus, but one that is in some way selfish. Is it possible that it’s really a way of saying, in essence, “Leave your stuff at the door, put on the facade, mask your problems and your pain … so that we don’t have to see the real you and deal with your real pain.”
Is not the call of Jesus to come to him with our stuff – to bring our problems right into his lap? “Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). Jesus didn’t say, “Leave your problems at the door, then come see me.” Or, as I like to say, Jesus didn’t say, “Clean up then come up.” He said, “Come up, and I’ll clean you up.” And isn’t the Church the body of Christ on earth? And if that’s true, should we not invite and welcome to come on in, baggage and all? Is that not the path to healing and restoration? It’s messy. It’s harder. It’s the cross.
Check out these two video clips. If you have time to watch them in their entirety, they’re powerful and inspirational! If you just have a few minutes, just watch 6:20-7:08 and 10:37-11:00 of the first video, and 2:50-6:08 of the second one.
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